A stop smoking coach with personal experience as a heavy smoker
(e.g., 4.5 packs a day) draws on their own history to perform
key duties with enhanced empathy and unique insight. Their
duties are to:
Establish Trust and Empathy: Use personal experience to
build a non-judgmental, trusting relationship, demonstrating a
deep understanding of the struggles, physical withdrawal, and
mental battle of quitting. The coach can share their own story
to show that recovery is possible, even for heavy smokers.
Personalized Planning and Goal Setting: Collaborate
with the client to develop a tailored cessation plan (which may
include the "tapering down" method), helping set specific,
measurable, attainable, realistic, and time-based (SMART) goals
that fit their lifestyle.
Identify and Manage Triggers: Help the client identify
situations and emotions that trigger smoking urges, and assist
in developing effective coping strategies (e.g., exercise,
hobbies, drinking water, deep breaths) to manage these
situations. The coach's experience with severe addiction
provides practical insight into breaking ingrained smoking
patterns.
Provide Education and Information: Offer evidence-based
information on the effects of smoking, the process of quitting,
available cessation aids (like NRT or other medications), and
the physical benefits of quitting.
Offer Ongoing Support and Motivation: Provide
continuous encouragement and accountability through regular
check-ins (e.g., phone calls, messages). This includes being
available for crisis intervention or when the client is having a
tough day.
Teach Life Skills: Assist clients in developing general
life skills (like stress management or time management) to
facilitate a smoother transition into a smoke-free life and
improve overall well-being.
Help Manage Setbacks: Help the client navigate slip-ups
without judgment, encouraging them to identify the trigger and
develop a plan for the future, rather than giving up entirely.
Celebrate Milestones: Recognize and celebrate
successes, no matter how small (e.g., smoke-free for one day,
one week), to bolster the client's motivation and self-efficacy.
Advise on Professional Help: Understand the limits of a
coaching role and guide clients to appropriate medical or
clinical professionals when necessary, especially for managing
severe withdrawal symptoms or underlying psychological issues.
The personal history as a heavy smoker enhances the coach's
credibility and ability to say, "I've been where you are, and I
can help you get through this," which can be a powerful
motivator for clients.